jack

I think more and more people are doing the legal and the thing you invite people to bits separately. Two weddings I'm going to this year had them separately and one I went to last year. It's what we would have done except Alec particularly wanted to get legally married in church (and it's more complicated if you're CofE because the church can't do weddings which aren't legally recognised) and we were able to come up with a compromise which worked for us. The wording of the civil ceremony is a bit rubbish.