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1. If you had to participate in one Olympic event, what would it be and why?
Despite representing my schools in multiple sporting events from the ages of 8-15, especially netball and athletics, I have no idea what events are currently in the Olympics. If I'd trained hard when I was younger I probably could've made it into one of the less popular events for the UK (my cousin did a sport at national level), not ski-jumping though because it's too challenging so Eddie the Eagles's's legend remains safe. :-D

2. What is the one song you always sing along to?
I sing along to almost everything, including scat singing classical instrumental music. I also sing signals to the birbs when I feed them, so they know I've put food out and wasn't merely gardening (but the robin follows me closely when I'm potentially exposing natural food too).

3. Do you wear a seatbelt in the car?
Yes, obv, why wouldn't I? Although, to quote the novel I'm currently reading about post-communist Eastern Europe: "They'd fastened their seat belts, an obvious sign that they weren't from around here."

4. Car, SUV or truck and why?
Feet, bus, train, pedals, trap/horse: in that order. In an apocalypse I'd steal a small electric vehicle with large wheels that could be charged by renewable energy and had reasonably available parts (tyres for a start!), so probably a bicycle and bike trailer.

5. Are you a good/bad driver? Explain.
I'm a good driver, but I'm now medically disqualified from driving on public roads (except farm machinery for which I have an exemption and vehicles that don't require a licence). I can drive multiple different vehicles with wheels numbering between one (wheelbarrow not unicycle) and many-many. Also, I've driven large farm machinery on narrow winding lanes and never squished anybody, which is proof of my good-drivingness. Lastly, I never drove a front-opening bubble car with no reverse gear into a wall while drunk and had to stay there all night until my friends found and rescued me in the morning, lmao.

6. And y'all? :-)

Just stuff

Dec. 5th, 2025 07:44 am
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Biggie takes 3 pills a day. He has a vet appointment next week. His old vet moved to Iowa. So this is a new-ish one. She saw him last fall when he ate (and then popped) the nose plug but she hasn't weighed in on his pills/food. The last vet gave him one of the pills to discourage him from eating weird shit. The other pill was in lieu of the hyper expensive food she had prescribed the year before for his urinary issues.

I'm thinking we drop the anti anxiety pill and see how that goes. And then also drop the other one and go back to the hyper expensive food. Expensive, yes, but easier over all. He's fine. He acts fine. He eats fine. He poops fine. He pees fine. He drinks plenty of water. He's fine.

Oh and the tofu litter? It's really really fine. I am never going back. It's cleaner with no dust or debris and I also feel like I need less of it to do the job.

This morning, I think I'll go out and get some smaller cash. I never need 20 dollar bills. When I do need cash, it's ones and fives. There is a little Christmas fair this morning to raise money for something. But Martha has a table so I have to go. If I want to buy something, it's much more considerate to have exact change and all I have are 20's. To today is a good excuse to go get some usable money. I set up the Chase account for this very reason but have yet to take advantage. The closest Chase branch is very close.

It's cold and rainy but not nearly cold enough for ice so no big obstacle for going out and the car needs to stretch its tires.

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Paladin's Grace

Dec. 5th, 2025 03:39 pm
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The Paladin series by T Kingfisher has been recommended to me a few times and I've been meaning to try more of T Kingfisher's books, so I thought I'd give the first one, Paladin's Grace, a try.
It's about a paladin named Stephen, whose god dies, so he's left somewhat at a lose end - with the risk of falling into a beserker rage hanging over him.
He meets Grace, a perfumer, and the attraction between them is pretty much instant.
There is some plot (someone is leaving severed heads lying around the city and there's an assassination attempt that both Stephen and Grace end up embroiled in) but the vast majority of the book is focused on their romance - and the way it was presented and developed over the course of the book really annoyed me!
It's incredibly repetitive - with each of them continually fantasising about the other, then berating themselves for being ridiculous or shameful, and assuming over and over again that the other one could never be interested in them. Ad nauseum. Even when things do progress between them, there's still an extended misunderstanding and more endless browbeating and self-loathing before things finally get resolved.
And it was just really, really irritating. I rolled my eyes so many times while reading this book, I'm surprised they didn't roll right out of my head!
Both plot strands were quite interesting, but neither got remotely enough page time to feel fully fleshed out - and then one was resolved through a massive coincidence and the other through a deus ex machina, so neither was very satisfying.
I did, however, absolutely love all the peripheral characters - the other paladins, Grace's friend and landlady, and especially the bishop of the White Rat.
So, while I can't say I really enjoyed this book all that much overall, I am actually planning to continue with the series, because each subsequent book follows different characters I really like, and I'm hoping the other romances will be handled differently and be more enjoyable.

Links post!

Dec. 5th, 2025 09:22 am
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a song: Occupy Your Mind by Grace Petrie on Bandcamp

a taste: chocolate-and-floral tea I need some of.

a cause: Donate to Unicef in the name of your least favorite antivaxx/regressive relative this holiday season!

a sight: a pretty rock. I kinda want to chew on it?

a groove: Do Not Break, a DrumNBass music generator by myNoise

a kinship: AuDHD Belonging with guest Pasha Marlowe on Audhd Flourishing podcast

a thinky: Heteropessimism: A fun new word for my vocabulary! I don’t necessarily agree with the article, but it is an interesting way to look at heterosexual's meta-experiences around their relations.

a project: How to keep track of important papers by ms-demeanor from tumblr. I am collecting GLP-1 data right now, but also want to start cleaning up and clearing out all the stuff from the garage that I don’t need. Feel free to leave comments below with links to / ways that have worked for you to stay organized and relatively de-cluttered.

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gnar

Dec. 5th, 2025 07:48 am
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gnar or gnarr (NAHR) - v., to snarl, to growl.


Also, as noun, in extreme sports, snow or a wave or other thing that is gnarly, but that's unrelated. This gnar goes back to Old English gnyrran, though many dictionaries obscure this by claiming it's imitative -- though cognates in German and Dutch make it clear that, even if so, it's an old, old imitation.

---L.
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Posted by John Scalzi

For the last four days, the 2025 Whatever Gift Guide has been about helping you find the perfect gifts for friends and loved ones. But today I’d like to remind folks that the season is also about helping those in need. So this final day is for charities. If you’re looking for a place to make a donation — or know of a charitable organization that would gladly accept a donation — this is the place for it.

How to contribute to this thread:

1. Anyone can contribute. If you are associated with or work for a charity, tell us about the charity. If there’s a charity you regularly contribute to or like for philosophical reasons, share with the crowd. This is open to everyone.

2. Focus on non-political charities, please. Which is to say, charities whose primary mission is not political — so, for example, an advocacy group whose primary thrust is education but who also lobbies lawmakers would be fine, but a candidate or political party or political action committee is not. The idea here is charities that exist to help people and/or make the world a better place for all of us.

3. It’s okay to note personal fundraising (Indiegogo and GoFundMe campaigns, etc) for people in need. Also, other informal charities and fundraisers are fine, but please do your part to make sure you’re pointing people to a legitimate fundraiser and not a scam. I would suggest only suggesting campaigns that you can vouch for personally.

3. One post per person. In that post, you can list whatever charities you like, and more than one charity. Note also that the majority of Whatever’s readership is in the US/Canada, so I suggest focusing on charities available in North America.

4. Keep your description of the charity brief (there will be a lot of posts, I’m guessing) and entertaining. Imagine the person is in front of you as you tell them about the charity and is interested but easily distracted.

5. You may include a link to a charity site if you like via URL. Be warned that if you include too many links (typically three or more) your post may get sent to the moderating queue. If this happens, don’t panic: I’ll be going in through the day to release moderated posts. Note that posts will occasionally go into the moderation queue semi-randomly; Don’t panic about that either.

6. Comment posts that are not about people promoting charities they like will be deleted, in order to keep the comment thread useful for people looking to find charities to contribute to.

All right, then: It’s the season of giving. Tell us where to give to make this a better place.