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Nov. 23rd, 2025 07:13 pm
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Dear Care and Feeding,

I’m 19 and in university. I recently broke up with my boyfriend, “Jason.” He’d been acting weird for a few weeks, but when I ended things, he completely flipped out.

It escalated to the point where he slipped into my family’s home, stole our cat, “Flibble,” and tried to hold him for ransom. We did get Flibble back, and Jason is now facing charges. I just want to put this all behind me.

My parents, however, are furious. They keep telling me I should “have better judgment” and promise I’m going to get an earful this Thanksgiving about “choosing appropriate partners.” I get it, this got bad. But Jason wasn’t showing signs of being unhinged when we first started dating, and I did break up with him as soon as he started acting erratically. Still, my parents chew me out every time we talk and have started calling two or three times a week specifically to lecture me.

It’s driving me crazy. I don’t want to block them or cut them out of my life, but I also don’t want to deal with this anymore. What can I do to get them to lay off?

—Stepped In It


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Nov. 23rd, 2025 06:35 pm
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Nov. 23rd, 2025 07:03 pm
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Dear Meghan: I have an 8-year-old daughter. She does not have a mother (my husband and I are both men). She doesn’t particularly like shopping for clothes, but she has a relative who keeps her very well stocked with jumpsuits, dresses and girly outfits of all kinds, which is the type of clothing she typically likes. In general, I let her decide for herself how to mix and match the various clothes she has each morning and will only step in if something is really inappropriate.

My mother, however, feels the need to criticize her clothing choices nearly every time she sees her. “Oh dear, you should never mix prints!” or “Why didn’t you wear a different shirt under that jumpsuit — it really doesn’t match at all!” My mother blames me for what she sees as my inability to teach a girl about girls’ fashion.

I told her that I had indeed talked about some of these rules, but I thought my daughter should also be able to make her own choices about how to dress. She then accused me of being a bad parent and suggested that I would also “give up” if faced with a child who stole or cheated on a test. Is it really so wrong to refuse to have a daily struggle because my daughter went to school with shorts that lightly clashed with her shirt?

— Grandma’s Criticisms


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Nov. 23rd, 2025 06:59 pm
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Dear Meghan: My sons (5 and 6 years old, both mildly autistic) tend to wake up in the morning and as fast as they can dive into my husband’s and my bed for cuddles. They seem to get a lot of sensory satisfaction and a lot of comfort from this ritual. Their preference would be to cuddle with me or both of us for about 15 minutes until they’re all the way awake, then run off and do their own thing. I don’t mind this at all — I enjoy it somewhat, and I find that (as primary caretaker) their days and thus mine go much smoother if they have this cuddle in bed to start the day.

The problem is that my husband says it ruins his day to have his kids in his bed at all.

I have tried to be a physical barrier between him and them — doesn’t work. I’ve tried to not let them in until he’s already up and showering — doesn’t work. I’ve tried to go to their beds and cuddle them there — doesn’t work. I’m out of ideas.

What should I do?


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In South Africa, intimate partner violence is the most common form of violence against women, and it is pervasive. According to the National Gender-Based Violence Prevalence Study, 24% of women aged 18 and older have experienced physical or sexual violence by a partner or spouse.
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Title: The Deere Files Podcast Presents: The Heirs Of Samuel Westing.
Author: [personal profile] lannamichaels
Fandom: The Westing Game
Rating: G
Archives: Archive Of Our Own, SquidgeWorld

Summary: What do a Supreme Court Justice, the chairwoman of the board of the largest employer in Wisconsin, a two-time Olympic gold medalist, the inventor of Hoo's Little Foot-Eze innersoles, and a dead union organizer who didn't exist have in common?


There was no such person as Barney Northrup )

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Title: Guten Morgen
Author: MerricatB
Fandom: Sense8
Pairing/Characters: Rajan/Wolfgang/Kala
Rating/Category: Teen & Up
Prompt: thanks to Wolfgang and Rajan, mornings became Kala’s favourite part of the day
Spoilers: Whole series
Summary: Kala experiences a delightful disruption to her morning routine.
Notes/Warnings: Read on AO3

Library Update #22: Blown Apart

Nov. 23rd, 2025 03:29 pm
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Halfway through Sorting of Office/Art Supplies
Halfway through Sorting of Office/Art Supplies
iPhone 13 mini photo

In this situation, the only solution is to blow everything up and reassemble pieces. The photo above is actually after a lot of sorting and reorganization has been done, and organized items are put away. But obviously there’s still a lot of work to do.

In opening all the boxes at the same time and moving items onto the table, I learned I had two sets of four rolls of double-sided tape... and then found two giant rolls of double-sided tape. (Yes, I use a lot of double-sided tape.) Now they’re all in one place, and I won’t be tempted to buy another roll.

I had 5 + 1 + 1 boxes of 5000 Swingline staples (plus a small box). One of those boxes was from J.K.Gill when I was young and was on sale for 69¢, originally $1.25. I’ve never finished one box, and it’s clear I’ll never need 7 full boxes of staples. At least four boxes are in the giveaway pile. So is an extra stapler – and a third Scotch tape dispenser. (I think that dispenser is the one I kept at work. The extra pair of scissors I kept at work is also in this surplus pile.)

I’ll continue to separate the necessities from the collectables (e.g., Nyanko Burger stationery) from the Don’t Need This Stuff Anymore clutter. I’m aggressively cutting back so that I don’t fill up my storage. I was really worried about storage for a while, but I’m less freaked out as items are falling into place. We’ll see how it goes.

Just like the old days, for a day

Nov. 16th, 2025 01:37 pm
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I used to run around like crazy all the time--I remember showing someone a picture of my calendar and having them say "You're insane." The day I met [instagram.com profile] britshlez it was the fourth (of six) events I was going to that day. Saturday wasn't that many but it was far more than I usually get to do.

The daily chronicle )
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The late great Jim Henson visited with Australian puppeteer Richard Bradshaw to learn more about combining comedy with shadow puppetry in an episode of Jim Henson Presents the World of Puppetry. Bradshaw explained that it happened quite by happy accident.

I was once asked to make a demonstration figure and I made the figure which is very similar to the old man in in my show that taps at a rock  …I had a rock that suddenly turned into a head. When I showed it in front of the audience who were seeing different kinds of puppets, they laughed quite a lot.

Bradshaw also shared a delightful demonstration of his shadow puppet comedy.

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Sgetti Hoops

Nov. 23rd, 2025 09:17 pm
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We are feeling a bit not well so we like tried making homemade spaghetti hoops as like a comfort food (well, not like making the hoops - we like bought them as dried pasta - but cooking them and making the orange sauce).

We used the recipe in Catherine Phipps’ Everyday Pressure Cooking (but like halved becos it’s like written to be enuff for four people) only without sticking in an onion or any fresh basil (we didn’t have any). And it does taste mostly like tin sgetti hoops but not quite as soggy. But the sauce is more red than orange so we like need to experiment with that a bit