I think it might help if you could hold the ceremonial wedding soon after the legal paperwork wedding. But there are rational reasons for having the ceremonial parts on days guests would find convenient.
If people are traveling from far away, it would be nice if you didn't leave immediately without them, because it usually seems like going to someone's wedding is just lip service to visiting them since you see them from afar for a few minutes and then they're gone. I don't go to weddings anymore (although I might make an exception if it was under an hour from here by car).
Finally, I completely understand why a certain date would be important.
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Date: 2011-02-28 06:27 pm (UTC)If people are traveling from far away, it would be nice if you didn't leave immediately without them, because it usually seems like going to someone's wedding is just lip service to visiting them since you see them from afar for a few minutes and then they're gone. I don't go to weddings anymore (although I might make an exception if it was under an hour from here by car).
Finally, I completely understand why a certain date would be important.