Often people who play computer games complain that life lacks appropriate hacks. But it does; we're just used to them.
Look at, for instance, Casimir effect. Who on earth would have expected that? Free pressure, generated from nothing. But it happens, someone figured it out, and eventually will be exploited.
The same mentally. Is it cheating to not have strength of will? Somewhat. It's certainly better to be strong, and then you can be in unexpected occasions as well. Then again, you might as well get things done in the meantime.
I used to be hopeless. I'd let emails, bills, work, everything pile up until I responded in a rush.
My current habit is that everything that has to be done, is essentially a unit task (ie. requiring little decision, and about 1/2 hr or less), I assign to a day at some point in the future when it arrives. Anything I want to put off more, I assign to next month. I categorise things into such tasks; 'Q something' -- where I need to decide something; and '#' where I lump a compound task to be broken down later.
Then on any given day, I have up to half a dozen, and can do them without worrying about any of the others. It's easy, it works.
It works for me. Specifically, most things at home *are* such simple tasks. At work, or writing, or programming, I need decent structure. And none are hard in themselves. And there few are enough that I generally do have time to do them all. If you differ, you may need something else.
Why does it work? Well, five years ago, I could keep everything I needed to do in my head. Later, I couldn't, but still had the habit of doing so, so generally ended up with a scribbled mess in my mind at the bottom of the list, containing things I'd forgotten until they became urgent. But knowing that there's nothing being lost, and I don't have to do 20 things, just 5, enables me to do them easily and without fuss.
It's like extelligence; I use the paper (ok, text file on server or gmail) as an extension of my mind. And by writing it down remember it better anyway, if I need to. Of course, some people are naturally orgnaised. But then, successful people have their own systems. Who is to know I'm not? Only me, people who know me well, and people who take away my crutches :)
Look at, for instance, Casimir effect. Who on earth would have expected that? Free pressure, generated from nothing. But it happens, someone figured it out, and eventually will be exploited.
The same mentally. Is it cheating to not have strength of will? Somewhat. It's certainly better to be strong, and then you can be in unexpected occasions as well. Then again, you might as well get things done in the meantime.
I used to be hopeless. I'd let emails, bills, work, everything pile up until I responded in a rush.
My current habit is that everything that has to be done, is essentially a unit task (ie. requiring little decision, and about 1/2 hr or less), I assign to a day at some point in the future when it arrives. Anything I want to put off more, I assign to next month. I categorise things into such tasks; 'Q something' -- where I need to decide something; and '#' where I lump a compound task to be broken down later.
Then on any given day, I have up to half a dozen, and can do them without worrying about any of the others. It's easy, it works.
It works for me. Specifically, most things at home *are* such simple tasks. At work, or writing, or programming, I need decent structure. And none are hard in themselves. And there few are enough that I generally do have time to do them all. If you differ, you may need something else.
Why does it work? Well, five years ago, I could keep everything I needed to do in my head. Later, I couldn't, but still had the habit of doing so, so generally ended up with a scribbled mess in my mind at the bottom of the list, containing things I'd forgotten until they became urgent. But knowing that there's nothing being lost, and I don't have to do 20 things, just 5, enables me to do them easily and without fuss.
It's like extelligence; I use the paper (ok, text file on server or gmail) as an extension of my mind. And by writing it down remember it better anyway, if I need to. Of course, some people are naturally orgnaised. But then, successful people have their own systems. Who is to know I'm not? Only me, people who know me well, and people who take away my crutches :)