Dave and Lucy Wedding
Aug. 21st, 2006 01:37 pmOn saturday I went to Dave and Lucy's wedding. I missed the ceremony but joined them for the reception. They looked good -- Lucy's dress is fabulous -- and very happy. Congratulations!
I met up with a crowd of Daves I used to know, which was nice, but strange to see where I used to be compared to where I am now. I described the infinite sand puzzle to Dave and he worked out the answer immediately, making me realise I don't do enough thinking at the moment.
Jane was there (my exn-girlfriend, who knew Lucy from school), which was weird. She looked wonderful, was back in essex being a lawyer. I missed her, we did mean a lot to each other, and went out a long time, and it was good, and I felt lucky to have had her. On the other hand, we still had nothing to *say* to each other, which makes me think it was probably right to let it go :( I think our lives matched well, but we didn't have much in common on a day to day level, if you see what I mean.
It was nostalgic, though, for instance having someone to roll their eyes if I say a mathmo-like sentence :)
I met up with a crowd of Daves I used to know, which was nice, but strange to see where I used to be compared to where I am now. I described the infinite sand puzzle to Dave and he worked out the answer immediately, making me realise I don't do enough thinking at the moment.
Jane was there (my exn-girlfriend, who knew Lucy from school), which was weird. She looked wonderful, was back in essex being a lawyer. I missed her, we did mean a lot to each other, and went out a long time, and it was good, and I felt lucky to have had her. On the other hand, we still had nothing to *say* to each other, which makes me think it was probably right to let it go :( I think our lives matched well, but we didn't have much in common on a day to day level, if you see what I mean.
It was nostalgic, though, for instance having someone to roll their eyes if I say a mathmo-like sentence :)