Poly Speed Dating
Oct. 17th, 2016 06:09 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Poly speed dating again tomorrow! In 3s. I managed to escape doing the programming for the matching algorithm this time :)
What should I tell people about why they should like me?
What should I tell people about why they should like me?
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Date: 2016-10-18 10:15 am (UTC)So I think what you should say is that you put a lot of thought and effort into self-improvement. That gives you a conversation opener, you can talk about some of your productivity stuff, and if you want to get more personal, talk about how you got over some of your problems with procrastination and perfectionism. Also I have read that this trait is supposed to be very attractive to women; it's certainly attractive to me, but it might well be a good way to pique people's interest without risking being creepy by saying you're really good at sex or massage or other physical things. Or making a big deal of the fact that you're really kind and thoughtful. You actually are, but if you say that it makes you sound like a Nice Guy.